Dating a boy and not a real man…

There are many differences between a real man and a guy who is behaving just like a boy. You must know all the differences and make your choices before dating. You prefer a man or a boy? Read carefully  the following features of a guy – boy and keep in mind all these symptoms  in case he’s incapable of growing up…

1.He only cares about himself 😎 

He has no interest in your hopes and dreams unless they revolve around him; he only cares that his needs are being met. An actual adult would have already figured out he’s not the center of the goddamn universe.

2.He lives with his parents 😯 

This is the reddest of red flags. How can you expect to have an adult relationship with someone who’s never left the nest?

3.He expects from you to be his mom 😆 

If he thinks being in a relationship means he never has to cook, do his laundry or clean up after himself (or needs you to at least remind him to do those things), you’re in pretty warped territory. Let him know you’re more than a maid he gets to bang.

4.He never take the blame  😡 

Nothing’s ever his fault, is it? A man doesn’t worry about who’s at fault — it doesn’t matter. There’s nothing productive about assigning or arguing about blame. If something’s wrong, just fix it.

5.He doesn’t care of you 😡 

And I don’t mean financially. You’re an independent, 21st-century woman — you don’t need a man to pay your bills. But if he’s not bringing you chicken soup when you’re sick or giving you rides when your car’s in the shop, this is not a guy you can depend on.

6.He can’t fix anything 😕 

Maybe it’s an old gender role, but men are expected to be reasonably handy. He needs to know how to change a tire, mount a towel rack or at the very least.

7.He manipulates you  🙁 

Knowing how to manipulate people into doing what you want is actually a pretty good skill to have. But using it in a relationship is pretty rotten.

8.He can’t take a decision 🙄 

When you ask a guy where he wants to go for dinner and he says something like, “I don’t care,” or “Wherever you want,” it’s usually true. But the difference between a man and a boy is that the man makes a suggestion anyway.

9. He use sex to solve his problems 😳 

Make-up sex is awesome, but it only really counts if the issue is resolved beforehand. Otherwise it’s just a distraction that temporarily tables the problem and allows it to get worse.

10. He is not reliable  😕 

This one’s just common sense. If you can’t count on him to be there when you need him, he’s no kind of man you want in your life.

 

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How technology has change the way we date?

 31-03-2016, Our English Articles

TECHNOLOGY HAS CHANGED THE WAY WE DATE

There’s no doubt that technology has brought so much to our life. Technology has brought with it some good things when it comes to dating and finding love, but in other ways I think it’s also hindered the process and has made things more confusing than in the past. Technology & Dating. 1.If you’re trying to keep your past out of your new relationship or if you’re not ready to share that you’re seeing someone new, it’s harder to keep private. You could experience the other person changing their relationship status before you’re ready. 2. You can’t vent about a bad date or a weird person you met because you will likely be found out if you vent online. Everything is so public now. Read more

Θυμώστε… Κάνει καλό!

Angry woman using a computer

Νιώθετε συχνά εκρήξεις θυμού; Εκνευρίζεστε εύκολα και ξεσπάτε στους γύρω σας; Ο θυμός αν και γενικά θεωρείται ένα αρνητικό συναίσθημα για εμάς τους ίδιους και έπειτα για τους άλλους πάνω στους οποίους τον εκδηλώνουμε, ωστόσο είναι ένα φυσικό και ανθρώπινο επακόλουθο. Μάλιστα, χωρίς αυτόν δεν θα μπορούσαμε να λειτουργήσουμε ομαλά στις σχέσεις μας! Ο θυμός είναι ένα έμφυτο και απαραίτητο συναίσθημα. Οι ειδικοί υποστηρίζουν μάλιστα ότι διαθέτουμε ένα «βιολογικό σύστημα θυμού» που προστατεύει εμάς αλλά και το συμφέρον μας απέναντι στους άλλους ανθρώπους.

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5 advices when he doesn’t call or text you back

You like a guy and you have gone some nice dates with him but suddently he stops call or text you back.  Basically, whenever he doesn’t call or text you back can drive you CRAZY. In these situations, it can be tough to figure out what to do. The hopeful part of your brain wants to believe something happened, like his phone “died” or he’s really, really busy with other stuff or maybe your phone is broken and the text just didn’t go through. Then there’s that miserable part of your brain that is imagining the absolute worst. So how do you deal? What do you do?


Dont bombard him with messages

When someone is not responding to you, the absolute worst thing you can do is bombard them with your own messages. It’s the easiest and fastest way to push someone away and make them really annoyed. 😕 

Reach out in person if it’s possible

If so, casually try to reach out in person. It’s obviously a lot harder to lie and avoid someone when you’re looking at their face. Don’t seek him out or mysteriously show up at places you know he’ll be. If he avoids you or acts weird, you’ll know something is up. 😐 

Avoid writing about it on social media

Again, you don’t want this to be a public affair – it’s between you and this person and it’s no one else’s business. Avoid sub-tweeting nasty remarks or making “subtle” Facebook statuses that are obviously about him and the situation. You might think it will catch his attention and make him want to call you, but really it will just make you look immature and annoying. 😡 

Don’t wait around for him

I know how easy it is to obsess over a possible text or message from this dude when he’s been blowing you off. But please don’t wait around for him. Don’t keep your phone glued to your hand or jump every time it makes a noise. Don’t stay home just in case he calls. Go out, live your life and try to put this in the back of your mind. If he calls, great. If not, whatever. You have better things to do with your time. 🙁 

Move on and cut your losses

If he never responds to anything? Seriously, forget about him and move on. First of all, showing him no attention and doing your own thing will give off a better message than sending him a long, angry text explaining why he’s a dirtbag. Second of all, if he’s not going to respect you enough to answer you, he’s not worth your time at all. Cut your losses and move on now. 😀 

 

Vivere una storia d’amore a distanza…

29-03-2016,Our Italian Articles

L’amore a distanza è complicato e questo è un dato di fatto. Ma con passione e volontà può funzionare. Mantenere viva una relazione, soprattutto dopo tanto tempo, non è mai semplice ed è ancora più difficile se parliamo di storie d’amore a distanza. In questi casi, infatti, subentrano nelle relazioni altri fattori che possono ostacolare l’amore e portarlo alla rottura, come la mancanza dell’altro e la gelosia, che spesso diventano davvero insopportabili tanto da portare uno dei due partner a dire basta. Se anche tu vivi un rapporto a distanza ti spieghiamo come tenere viva la fiamma dell’amore anche se siete lontani seguendo questi consigli. Read more

M’ama o non m’ama?

 29-03-2016, Our Italian Articles

M’ama o non m’ama?

Gli piaccio o non gli piaccio? Questa è una domanda che ci tormenta fin da quando eravamo bambine e spiumavamo margherite finché una non ci davano la risposta che desideravamo e, allora, partivamo sicure di noi, stringendo in pugno il nostro oracolo e andando a dichiarare i nostri sentimenti al bel ragazzo di turno. Se ti senti irresistibile e sei sicura di poter far colpo su chiunque, non perdere tempo a leggere questi consigli. Se invece, sei una ragazza “normale”, magari un po’ insicura, ecco i campanelli che potrebbero aiutarti a capire se il ragazzo che ti piace ricambia il tuo interesse. Per te alcune dritte. Che appartenga ad un uomo o ad una donna, il corpo proietta gesti e comportamenti involontari che, se letti nel mondo giusto, ci rendono un vero e proprio libro aperto.

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How to cope with depression after a break up

Ussually after a break up, depression is knock on your door. The  feelings of sadness and depression after a breakup can be very hard.

Our relationships with others are the most important things in our lives and, when they come to define a good deal of who we are and how we live, it can seem like our lives are falling apart when we get dumped.

It is perfectly normal to feel miserable after you’ve been dumped. Don’t try to fight it and be strong. Let yourself feel everything that you are experiencing. Bottling up your emotions isn’t a healthy way to deal with them in the long term. Eventually they can build up and force their way out at inappropriate times. Let the emotions run their course. You’ll feel better and be able to move on faster.

After you’re done crying or feeling angry at your ex, you will probably still feel like you are missing something in your life, especially if you and your ex were very close or were seeing each other for a long time.

It really helps you to have some kind of creative way to work out your feelings.

If you want to get your life back on track, you need to force yourself to get out of the house and start doing things. This can be hard, especially at first, but you can start small. Even if it’s just something simple like going to read a book at a coffee shop.  May seem silly, but doing small things like this will help you feel like you are still connected to rest of the world. 

Don’t fight your feelings – It’s normal to have lots of ups and downs, and feel many conflicting emotions, including anger, resentment, sadness, relief, fear, and confusion. It’s important to identify and acknowledge these feelings. While these emotions will often be painful, trying to suppress or ignore them will only prolong the grieving process.

Talk about how you’re feeling – Even if it is difficult for you to talk about your feelings with other people, it is very important to find a way to do so when you are grieving. Knowing that others are aware of your feelings will make you feel less alone with your pain and will help you heal. Journaling can also be a helpful outlet for your feelings.

Remind yourself that you still have a future – When you commit to another person, you create many hopes and dreams. It’s hard to let these dreams go. As you grieve the loss of the future you once envisioned, be encouraged by the fact that new hopes and dreams will eventually replace your old ones.

Cultivate new friendships. If you feel like you have lost your social network along with the divorce or breakup, make an effort to meet new people. Join a networking group or special interest club, take a class, get involved in community activities, or volunteer at a school, place of worship, or other community organization.

Avoid using alcohol, medicines, or food to cope. When you’re in the middle of a breakup, you may be tempted to do anything to relieve your feelings of pain and loneliness. But using alcohol, drugs, or food as an escape is unhealthy and destructive in the long run. It’s essential to find healthier ways of coping with painful feelings.

Make time each day to nurture yourself. Help yourself heal by scheduling daily time for activities you find calming and soothing. Go for a walk in nature, listen to music, enjoy a hot bath, get a massage, take a yoga class, or savor a warm cup of tea.

And remember to start loving yourself again…do pleasure things for your and stop blaming yourself for everything! 😉

 

 

 

 

Women talks: Gossip list…

American-flag-With-Heart-Shape-PC881028-03-2016, Our American Articles

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Women talk about everything and anything. A girls night out can be very interested… They talk about fashion, beauty, sex and and mainly about men. Why do you think Sex and the City  was so popular among women and loathed among men? When the movie came out, men all but hid under couches to avoid it. No male version of Sex and the City exists, and moreover, there’s no demand for one. Men tend to talk about “safe” topics: sports, finances, and work. Beauty issues. Compare breast sizes and latest plastic surgeries techniques, make up etc. Read more

Why he cancels your first date?

You are waiting for the perfect first date with him but suddenly he cancels your date…You don’t know why he change his mind… is he trying to avoid you or has he a real reason for this cancellation?

There could be various reasons behind the cancellation of the much anticipated first date. When a guy cancels a first date, it is natural to be disappointed and speculate about the reasons. However, do not get too much entangled in finding out the reasons, since that may cause you to doubt the intention of the guy. Try and relax as soon as you get to know about the cancellation. This will actually help you to delve deep into the situation and think from the proper perspective.

When the first date gets cancelled, the immediate reaction is anger. It is quite natural to feel angry, but the guy might have a real problem at hand and you should at least hear him out. This will save you from feeling unimportant and it will also help to clear any kind of misunderstanding. However, if the guy has stood you up, which is the worst way for cancellation of the first date, you should demand a reason.

While it is really disappointing to have your first date cancelled, you can actually make out the reason for cancellation if you are a little attentive. The way in which the guy cancelled the first date could tell you a lot about the cause. If he sent you a last minute text message, or left message on any of the social networking sites casually, then you are not as important to him as he is to you. You could also doubt his intentions, if he does not personally take the effort of cancellation, but informs through his friends.

On the other hand, if the guy has a real issue to deal with, then he will call you up personally and let you know the reason behind the cancellation. This will prove that he is interested in you, but due to some emergency, he was compelled to bring about the cancellation of the first date. You will also realize his honest intentions, if he sends flowers and asks for rescheduling the date. Moreover, if the guy asks to delay the first date rather than mentioning the word ‘cancel’, you can surely give him some benefit of doubt. Under such circumstances, you can think of rescheduling the first date with that guy.

Although there are some ways to tell the date wasn’t important to him:

Canceling may be unavoidable. However, some methods of cancellation make it clear that the date was not as important to him as it was to you.

  • He sends a text that he cannot make it at the last minute.
  • He posts a public note on Facebook, MySpace or Twitter announcing he can’t make it.
  • His ex-girlfriend, sister, or mutual friend cancels for him.
  • He sends an email, an instant message, or a direct message via social networking with no explanation.
  • He stands you up. This is by the far the worst and the least forgivable (unless it’s due to an emergency) .

 

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